{"id":8397,"date":"2014-11-03T06:40:31","date_gmt":"2014-11-03T11:40:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/moonrider7.com\/en\/?p=8397"},"modified":"2016-03-28T22:52:29","modified_gmt":"2016-03-29T02:52:29","slug":"not-for-you-but-for-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/moonrider7.com\/en\/2014\/11\/03\/not-for-you-but-for-us\/","title":{"rendered":"Not ” for ‘You'”, but “for ‘Us'”"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u00a0I really feel that the words Jeff chooses and the way he talks are really kind everyday. <\/span><\/div>\n

The word he often uses and I love to hear is “us”.<\/span><\/p>\n

When we go out together, we often encounter inconvenient situations since I use wheelchair. <\/span><\/p>\n

In those cases, he says;<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n

“This restaurant might not be convenient for ‘us<\/strong>‘.”<\/span><\/p>\n

“This part will be difficult for ‘us<\/strong>‘ to join.”<\/span><\/p>\n

“There should be another route for ‘us<\/strong>‘.”<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n

He wouldn’t say <\/span><\/p>\n

“This restaurant might not be convenient for ‘you<\/strong>‘.”<\/span><\/p>\n

or<\/span><\/p>\n

“This part will be difficult for ‘you<\/strong>‘ to join.” <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n

Japanese people often omit to say an object person like<\/span><\/p>\n

“This restaurant might not be convenient.”, <\/span><\/p>\n

but he doesn’t talk like that either.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The way he talks hasn’t changed since we met in 2007. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we were communicating in English then, he already said like;<\/span><\/p>\n

“That place might not be convenient for ‘us<\/strong>‘.”<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n

He first might be thinking a sentence in Chinese which is his mother language or in English which is easier to use for him than Japanese, and then translate to Japanese. <\/span><\/p>\n

So he would say an object person every time.<\/span><\/p>\n

In that case, still I really love to hear the sound of “us<\/strong>“. <\/span><\/p>\n

Because I feel that he is telling me like “Let’s find another way ‘together<\/strong>‘.” <\/span>and I am so loved:)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I really feel that the words Jeff chooses and the way he talks are really kind everyday.
\nThe word he often uses and I love to hear is “us”.<\/p>\n

When we go out together, we often encounter inconvenient situations since I use wheelchair.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":8398,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[138],"tags":[87],"class_list":["post-8397","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-our-love-story","tag-international-relationship"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonrider7.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8397","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonrider7.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonrider7.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonrider7.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonrider7.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8397"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/moonrider7.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8397\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8400,"href":"https:\/\/moonrider7.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8397\/revisions\/8400"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonrider7.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8398"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonrider7.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8397"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonrider7.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8397"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonrider7.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8397"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}